How private dating works
Talk first. Faces arrive as chemistry grows.
In short
Photos start hidden. Every chat has one chemistry score from 0 to 100%, shared by both of you, and the higher it gets, the more you see of each other, at the same moment. Words are never hidden.
What people see first
Your name, age, city and what you are looking for, plus a photo our server hides behind a torn paper before anyone sees it. Location is a city and a distance, never coordinates.
How chemistry grows
It starts once you have both written in the chat, then rises as you take turns talking. Your first photo and your first voice note add to it, and so do short puzzles. A flood of messages from one side does not.
The reveal ladder
| Chemistry | Stage | Photos | What opens |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0% | Stranger | Behind a torn paper | Name, age, city, what they want |
| 20% | Acquaintance | The mouth shows | What they like to make |
| 40% | Friendly | The tip of the nose shows | Interests and looks, in words |
| 60% | Close | Only the eyes hidden | Titles of their work |
| 80% | Trusted | Clear main photo | Links to their work |
| 100% | Top of the ladder | Every photo and video | Their other photos and videos, chat photos, video calls and private sharing |
Money cannot buy a look
Credits pay for sending things. They never unlock a photo or raise chemistry.
Find someone you know
Share your ID, or search for theirs. The ladder still applies.
Questions
- Can I pay to see someone sooner?
- No. Nothing you buy moves chemistry or unlocks a photo.
- Can I show my photo sooner?
- Yes. Before 80%, choose Show my profile photo now in the chat menu. It shows yours, not theirs.
- How long does it take?
- Each chat has a pace of 15, 30 or 60 exchanges to reach 100%.